Archive for October, 2009

INVESTING IN SCHOOL CHANGE

October 30th, 2009

My dad was a math wiz and was at the ready when I needed support with homework, until “the year of new math”.  He was beside himself.  “New math? What was wrong with the old math?”  Looking back (a long way back) on that time, I believe that my dad wasn’t just questioning the retirement of his math system.  He was perhaps feeling a bit archaic and set aside himself.  Change is hard.  During this same time period there was a push to move the U.S. to the metric system. That was in the ‘50’s. So far we’ve managed to move it all the way to 2 liter bottles. Great progress!  It’s small wonder that we find it difficult to let research inform how we structure our classrooms or how we maintain discipline.  What research tells us about the way children learn contradicts many of the current practices we have in place for teaching.  When children are at the developmental stage of seeking social interactions, we want independent work.  Although we become increasingly more aware that our world needs more “out-of-the-box” thinkers and problem solvers, schools are expected to teach to a prescribed test.

 

Like my dad with new math, institutions don’t typically gravitate toward change.  If there is to be informed change then it will require individuals to become informed.  What do you know about how children learn and how might it help our schools better serve children’s needs? Read up. Find out. Share what you learn.  Share what you already know from your own observations.  In fact, you can share right here.  To help you begin your exploration, try www.edutopia.org and search “Big Thinkers”. Enjoy!

THE MOVEMENT IS IN FULL SWING – “AND” INSTEAD OF “BUT”

October 13th, 2009

But what is wrong with using the word “but”?  There’s nothing really wrong with “but”, but isn’t it possible there’s a better way to communicate? 

 

So what I’m really saying is, “There’s something wrong – or at least problematic with that tiny three-letter word.  It separates the first statement from the statement that follows. And that is just fine as long as that is the intent.  If I’m attempting to create distance between one thought and another then “but” is my word.  “Our streets are littered with trash but it doesn’t have to be that way.”  There – in that sentence I want to discount the first statement as having less power than it may at first seem.  However in this sentence, “You finished most of the problems on your math paper but you didn’t do the last two” the word “but” leaves the recipient with a sense that the first part of that statement was just a lead-in for the real message, that of incompetence.  Is that really what was intended?  If not, perhaps “and” (another three-letter word and a beautiful connector) is more helpful as in “… and you just have two more to do.  You’re almost done!”  Would you be more motivated if the person making the comment to you acknowledged your efforts so far, or discounted them as “not enough”?

CHOICES – MORE THAN “WHICH SHIRT”

October 1st, 2009

 

You’ve heard the reasons for offering children two choices. You may have even heard that making both the choices positive will motivate children to be more cooperation when they’ve drifted into resistance.  It all makes sense. And it can be quite simple or very difficult depending on the child’s willingness to shift gears and get on board. 

 

Perhaps there is an even more important message in the offering of positive choices.  Children learn that they have the power to impact their experiences.  What works, what doesn’t work becomes an investigative piece that helps your child see the cause and effect of simple choices like, “Do you choose to wear short pants or long pants today?  You chose long pants.”  Then, should it be a hot day, your child begins to see that making choices may require the need to obtain additional information in order to choose wisely.  If there’s a complaint about being hot all day then the next day you might add, “Before you choose, would you like to know what the weather will be like today?” (Although in Cleveland, that information is not guaranteed!) Over time we offer more in giving choices than just personal preference like, “Do you want the red shirt or the blue shirt?”  We offer an opportunity to see choices as a way to build a responsible, thoughtful way of life.